Monday, June 30, 2008

Where's the beef?! Going vegan for a week

Frank:

Let me just start off by stating that I am by no means a vegetarian. I wasn't exactly thrilled with the idea of going vegan for a week but the fact that I already ate fairly healthy, quite a lot of vegetables and not a ton of meat led to me think it would be easy for me. Boy, was I wrong.

I work at the Hearst building in New York, which has one of the best cafeterias in the city. It has some of the freshest produce and uses fresh, locally grown, and organic whenever possible. It features a pay-per-ounce, hot and cold, buffet style, salad bar that changes daily. And as if someone knew what my project was for this week, Monday's lunch bar featured my favorite: Grilled hanger steak (which only comes out maybe once a month). Normally, I make myself a huge salad add a few scoops of what ever sides they might have and maybe 1 small piece of chicken or pork (...or a nice, juicy cut of hanger steak!) This was the miscalculation that led me to believe that this would be easy (and ultimately to me feeling faint by the end of the first day). The problem was, most of the "vegetarian sides" that I would normally get were loaded with either cheese, a cream sauce of some kind or at the very least, butter. Normally, I would crumble bleu cheese on top of my salad, and without this, it felt a little empty. This was going to be harder than I thought.

Meg:

I've never been a big meat eater, and have gone back and forth with (lacto/ovo inclusive) vegetarianism for years. But when we embarked on this experiment, I knew there were going to be some things I really, really missed (CHEESE!). However, I'm always up for a challenge, so I put away my beloved string cheese (and Babybel mini cheese rounds, and cottage cheese, and parmesan...) and geared up for a week of deprivation.

While my office doesn't come equipped with a healthy cafeteria, there were several items at my disposal that helped to ease my transition: Plenty of fresh fruit, soy creamer (and eventually rice milk), raw almonds, dried fruit, and an interesting variety of flavored waters (hint water and mint water).

Frank:

First things first: After a day of eating nuts and berries, Meg and I realized we needed to go shopping. Luckily, New York has many health food stores, so we took a trip to one nearby our house. We knew we needed some staple replacements, but we took the opportunity to try some new things. Here are some of my favorites:

Smart Dogs (vegan hotdogs) - Quite satisfying hot dog replacement - throw them on a slice of multi-grain bread, melt a Veggie Slice (vegan cheese slices) on top of it, and throw on some organic catsup - it's not half bad! Satisfies a craving for something meaty (non-vegetable!!).

Vegan chicken salad and tofu salad - We bought these pre-made at the health store. I bought these with the intention for them to serve as Megan's lunch (seeing as though she doesn't have a posh cafeteria). However, I pretty much ate the whole "chicken" salad one when we got home (I'm not sure if it was that good, or I was just that hungry - either way, it was pretty meaty).

Health is Wealth All-Natural Chicken-Free Buffalo Wings: These little guys came to me at a dark time. A couple of long days at work, combined with biking home in the heat, dehydration (more on this later), and the fact that I had eaten nothing but grass and twigs had left me quite cranky and in serious need of something MEATY. Put these in the oven, they toast up great - dipped in your favorite barbeque sauce, they are surprisingly stringy, juicy and chicken-y. It wasn't until about 2 hours later, when I remembered Megan had said something like, "Wow, these have quite a bit of fiber in them!". Yeah, I remembered that when I was on the toilet.

Tofutti Cuties - These delicious little morsels are good even if you're not vegan. I've eaten them for quite some time just because... they're friggin good! My favorite kind is Strawberry Wave.

Meg:

By the second day, Frank was feeling kind of bad. It was turning out to be harder on him than it was on me. Poor guy. He had a headache and general malaise. After we ruled out "meat withdraw", we figured out it must have been dehydration. He just wasn't drinking enough water. That's important to note. I mentioned earlier that I have a lot of water available at work. So does Frank. The difference was, I drink it. A lot of it. After we pin-pointed the source of Frank's ailments, he added more fruit and water to his daily diet - problem solved! Anyway, on to my favorites:

Amy's Tofu Scramble Pocket - I love these. I ate them before going vegan. Loved them then and love them now. Basically, anything from Amy's Kitchen is fantastic. They specialize in vegetarian and vegan quick cuisine. Frozen meals, pizzas, burritos - It's all really good, I've even turned some of my non-vegetarian friends on to these products. I just had to make sure to check the labels (most things are clearly labeled if they have milk products in the ingredients list, some even have "vegan" or "vegetarian" clearly marked). I had one of her Indian Burritos later in the week for lunch, and it was great, too.

Soy yogurt - I was a big fan of the milk products before going vegan. I always had a yogurt in the morning for breakfast, so I knew I needed to find a decent replacement for this fast. We tried both soy and rice yogurt. The rice yogurt, to me, was too thin and had a funny smell. Frank, on the other hand, enjoyed it. I liked the soy yogurt much better (handily enough, Frank didn't like this as much, so we swapped out, he had the rice and I kept the soy).

Soy pudding - Again, a great soy replacement. Frank's not big on chocolate, so he didn't try it (more for me!).

Frank:

On Friday (my last day of vegan) we decided to splurge a bit and go out for a nice vegan dinner at Candle 79 on the Upper East Side. Now, this isn't the type of place you can eat every night as it isn't cheap, but this is a great way to ease into going vegan. It can give you hope for what eating vegan can be.

They have a grilled seitan chimichurri on the appetizer menu that is the closest thing to eating steak while still staying vegan that I've ever tasted. If I could eat here every night I would probably keep this up indefinitely.

Meg:

Unfortunately, we can't. Candle 79 was a great capper for an interesting week. We enjoyed lovely appetizers (I liked the stuffed manicotti - I was desperate for some "cheese" and it was a convincing replacement! Finally! Also, Frank just now realized that it wasn't real cheese - it was a tofu-basil "cheese", now you know it must be good!), their signature dish for an entree (seitan picatta in a white wine sauce with capers, this time the seitan was more chicken-y than the steak-like texture of the skewer appetizers), and a lovely chocolate-peanut butter dessert (chocolate peanut butter bliss, I think it's called). We got a chance to talk with the manager, Francesca, who offered a good description of Candle 79 - "A good restaurant that happens to be vegan." This is very true. They have a very accepting philosophy - they're not trying to push their lifestyle down anyone's throat, they're just providing people with good food. They equate food with love, so they are, in fact, spreading the love. That's pretty cool.

So, at the end of the week, Frank is done with being vegan. I was pleasantly surprised, though, when he didn't race to the nearest steakhouse at exactly 12:01 Saturday morning. I've decided to stick with it, though! I've been feeling very energetic all week, and I feel better morally, too. I'll save the factory farm speech for another time, though.

That's it for this week! You can check out my blog if you'd like an account of the (sometimes) grisly details of our week of going vegan.

Saturday, June 21, 2008

Sushi for beginners: The propper way eat sushi


Meg:

One thing Frank and I share is a deep and abiding love/fascination with all things Japanese - the wacky pop culture, the fascinating history, the architecture, the philosophies, and of course, the food!

The first time we went out for sushi, I thought Frank would be impressed with the fact that a Kentucky girl even knew what sushi was, so I ordered my California roll with confidence. When his mouth fell open, it thought it was to compliment me on my choice, but I couldn't be more wrong.

Frank:

Having spent three years of my life as a sushi chef left me being somewhat of a sushi snob. And while yes, I was kind of embarrassed by Megan's choice in sushi (the California roll was created in LA by a sushi chef to ease Americans into eating sushi), I was horrified when I saw her put a piece of ginger right on top of her sushi before putting it in her mouth.

Meg:

That was the point where he actually said something (although, knowing him as well as I do now, in retrospect it's shocking he held his tongue as long as he did). "What are you doing??" he demanded. I looked innocently at him from across the table - "What? You don't put ginger on your sushi?" I asked.

Thus began my true Sushi Education. After he had flung the wayward piece of ginger off my offensively "American" California Roll, he took a deep breath and began the difficult process of re-educating me. He explained that the purpose of the ginger was to cleanse the palate in between pieces of sushi (ahhhh!). And then he made me try a bite of his tuna roll.

Frank:

Just to be clear, putting ginger on top of your sushi would be similar to going to a wine tasting and throwing the little crackers you are given right in your glass of wine. Megan has come along way since then. She looks on in horror when I eat my piece of uni sushi (sea urchin roe) but she will get a couple pieces of salmon, a tuna roll and usually try what ever I might order.

Those who might be afraid to try raw fish should know that you can still have sushi with out ever leaving your comfort zone. Sushi, first of all, refers to the short grain sticky rice that is used. Not only are there all kinds of new creations that include cooked seafood like crab and shrimp, there are also many options for vegetarians as well.

Meg:
Back before my California roll days (for the record, California rolls are a good starting point as they don't include any raw fish, just cucumber, avocado and a crab stick), I would stick with vegetable rolls. Frank has introduced me to some other Japanese dining options since that first early sushi date - two of my favorites are taco yaki (no actual tacos involved - it's a doughy, creamy octopus dumpling served warm with mayonnaise) and shumai (another dumpling, this time usually shrimp). While they're not sushi, they do offer the chance for non-sushi eaters to try something on the menu other than the teriyaki!

Frank:

For those who have had sushi before, and want to push their boundaries, there are a few raw fish that I would recommend: While white fish like snapper or fluke are mild in flavor, salmon (Meg's favorite) tastes pretty similar in both raw and cooked forms. My favorite is toro, which is the fatty underbelly meat of the tuna. It's hard to come by, but it has a creamy texture and a mild, buttery flavor that makes it worth the (usually) higher price. The next time you want to impress the sushi chef, try ordering any kind of fish "nigiri" sushi (meaning served over a ball of sushi rice) and dip the fish (not the rice) into your soy sauce. If you really want to get technical, you're not really supposed to mix the wasabi into the soy sauce, but let's just start with keeping the ginger off the sushi.

Tuesday, June 10, 2008

In the beginning: How we met

Exactly 2 years ago today, a young teacher from Kentucky met with a film editor from Rhode Island in a cab in the middle of Manhattan after chatting on Myspace. The two met had a few drinks and really hit it off. From then on the two of them were pretty much inseparable. This is their story and this is their blog.



----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Frank
Date: Jun 6, 2006 8:06 PM

you seem like a lot of fun... besides you have good taste in movies.
i'ld love to chat online with ya.

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Meg
Date: Jun 6, 2006 7:12 PM

he he, it's funny, usually I get a lot of slack from film folk about my aversion to pretty much All That Is David Lynch. But, hey, if you're okay with that, I wouldn't mind chatting.


----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Frank
Date: Jun 6, 2006 10:21 PM

hey... believe me, I am a movie snob... but I personally hate david lynch... oh I get it... he's very clever... but jesus christ, tell me a story thats somewhat entertaining. I would rather punch myself in the face over and over for 90 minutes than watch his garbage (excluding that scene in mulholland dr. where naomi watts and laura harring hook up on the couch.. haha)...
Ya, needless to say, I couldnt agree with you more about David Lynch.

So, anyway... tell me more about yourself... what do you do for fun in the city?


----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Meg
Date: Jun 6, 2006 7:40 PM

Yesssss. *fist pump* You're only the 2nd person EVER to agree with me about the Lynch thing (maybe I should find some friends w/ better taste in movies). I feel slightly vindicated. Uh, me? I teach art to a bunch of young thugs in the South Bronx. I got tired of that racket, so after this year, I'm moving to Seoul, South Korea. In the meantime, I'm doing all the cool stuff I can think of here in the city. I've been here for seven years, so I've done a lot of it. I went to Coney Island last weekend and rode the Cyclone for the first time. (I highly, highly recommend it, if you haven't had the pleasure. It's frickin' awesome.) I like going out to different bars (as long as the jukebox is good!), walking around and people-watching, going to museums, basically the same junk as your average NYC 20-something. Although I have recently developed an affinity for going to Little Korea and assaulting various restaurants with my broken Korean. So, if you had only a month left in the city, what would you do?

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Frank
Date: Jun 7, 2006 3:57 AM

damn... you sound wicked awesome... if I were you and only had a month left in the city... i would spend as much time as i could with a cool guy named frank.
i know a tiny bit of korean... ahn young ah sayo...
i dont remember too much more.
seriously.. we should get a drink sometime before you leave


Jun 7, 2006 3:23 PM
Subject:

RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: hey
Body:
Eh, anneonghaseyo! Very good, grasshopper! Yeah, I really don't know much more than that at this point. I do know how to order soju and beer, and how to ask for toilet paper. So, really, I should be all set. I'd be up for getting a drink sometime. What's your favorite bar?


Frank:

I must say, looking back now I don't know how I got her to agree to meet up with me. I sounded kinda lame.

Meg:

I was not looking for anything serious. I was in the process of packing up my apartment and applying for my Korean visa when I took Frank up on his offer to grab a drink (well, several drinks). We had such a great time out karaoke-ing the night away that we met up the next day, too. And the next. And the next. In the back of my mind, I knew I would be leaving soon, but we just had a lot of fun together. We seemed to just...fit.

Frank:

I was bummed over the break-up of some stupid girl I was seeing and was just looking for someone to drink away my sorrows with. I had had too many distractions from the real reason why I had moved to New York (to further my career in film and television) so, Someone leaving for Korea in a month or so seemed to do just fine.

Meg:

I ended up opting out of my teaching contract in Seoul. When I really thought about what was motivating me to go, I couldn't think of anything better than "It seemed like a good idea at the time". I didn't really have a reason to go, but I hadn't had any reason to stay, either. Now, that was changed.

Now that two years have gone by, it's funny to think back to that first night of karaoke. We had no idea what was in store, but plunged ahead anyway, eager for a new experience. That seems to be the theme of our relationship. In the past two years, I have tried more new things and traveled to more new places than ever before in my life.

Frank:

for the Past 2 years meg has pretty much been my glue. holding me together and keeping me organized. I have grown a lot as a person and in my career these past couple years and she has been there right along the way rooting me on and a lot of the times actively being a part of my projects. I liken our relationship to me being like an electric guitar and to her being my Amplifier. Well, an amp plus an effects pedal seeing as though she doesn't just amplify what I do but adds in her own flair and input. Everything is bigger with us. We live big, we play hard and we also fight huge. But I don't think there is another soul on this planet that could handle the other one.

Over the past two years we have come to realize that we both like to experience life. If there is something out there to be seen or done we would love to see it, do it or taste it. This Blog will be about our travels, our tastings, our thoughts, and our lives. If its out there, we want to do it and we want to give you an honest opinion about it.